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JPB808
Super August 2016

Bachelorette party gifts from bride?

JPB808, on July 21, 2016 at 3:51 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 7

So my MOH (my cousin) is taking me out for my bachelorette party/get together.

I really have no clue if it's just me and her, or if she's going to throw and actual party as I've been completely left out of the plans.

The only thing she's gotten from me was the BPs phone numbers (which has connections to all my other friends). And the only thing she's really said was "be ready on the 30th at 7a because I'm picking u up and we're going to the spa". Ooh and "don't make any plans all day, and I may keep you over night".

My question is, do I get her a thank you gift not knowing who else will be joining us and if any of my other friends are helping her put plans together (my friends are the type to help out and chip in with expenses as we've done that with another friend of ours that recently got married). She's keeping all details under wraps. So I have no clue what to expect.

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Latest activity by JPB808, on July 21, 2016 at 2:13 PM
  • Mrs.Hancock
    Devoted June 2015
    Mrs.Hancock ·
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    I would get her a small thank you gift and if others are there an have helped plan then you could always add a small thank you gift to their thank you cards.

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  • Natalie
    VIP March 2017
    Natalie ·
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    You could always just tell her, "Thanks for coordinating everything! I want to get you and everyone who helped a little thank you gift. Without spoiling the plans, can you please tell me who to thank?"

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  • ChristinaS
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    ChristinaS ·
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    I would get her a little something to show how thankful you are for her help.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    You could also just wait a little bit on the thank you Smiley smile Wait until after the party so you know who to thank and for what!

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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
    annakay511 ·
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    I agree to wait until afterwards!

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  • Hollyberry
    VIP October 2016
    Hollyberry ·
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    I vote to wait and get her a gift after to thank her if necessary!

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  • JPB808
    Super August 2016
    JPB808 ·
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    Thanks everyone! I think I'm going to wait til after, that way I know who to thank if it's not just her.

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