Hi guys, first post! Question: Do people usually invite more than the groomsmen to the "bachelor party"? I use scare quotes because, for me, we're not doing anything big. Just me and four buddies hanging out, probably hit a bar or a club or something, just see what we can get into. Personally, I'd like it to just be the four of us; I don't get to see these guys much, and I don't want attentions divided. However, there will be some other guys (FW's brother, etc.) who'll be around, and it'll be kinda obvious if I don't invite them. Again, I'd strongly prefer it to just be the groomsmen me, but I don't wanna be rude. Thoughts?
P.S.: My fiancee is Peruvian, and her whole fam. is flying in from Peru. So it might be even more obvious if, i.e., her brother weren't coming with us.