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Julie
Dedicated April 2010

Bachelor Party Disaster!!!!!

Julie, on April 8, 2010 at 12:33 PM Posted in Planning 0 22

So the wedding is a week away and we have 1 major problem... The Best man is under 21 and doesnt know what to do for the bachelor party which he plans to have next Thursday. I know Im the bride and Im not really supposed to be involved but I am trying to give the best man ideas so my fiance can have a fun party. I live in Maryland and ANY ideas would be great...

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Latest activity by Julie, on April 10, 2010 at 3:51 PM
  • M&M
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    Hey, we live in Maryland too....is he trying to really "PARTY"? My fiance isn't so much in to that, his ideal bachelor party would probably be going to a Ravens Game (too bad we aren't getting married during football season!) So they are actually thinking of going to Fogo de Chao...it's a little pricy, but the guys pay for themselves, and what guy doesn't like all you can eat AWESOME steak!

    I'm sure they'll get in to something afterwards, but something like that could be fun for the under agers Smiley smile

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  • M&M
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    Oh my gosh....just saw you have 3 kids and previously married....sounds like my life! lol I have three boys and am divorced as well...and now with the man of my dreams Smiley winking You go girl! Speaking from someone with experience, you deserve a great guy! Good luck with all of your planning, it's so close!

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  • The Potters
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    I am sure there are plenty of bars/clubs in your area that allow 18 and up????

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  • Julie
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    Haha... thanks it has definetly been interesting. lol. He really wants to drink but not get strippers or anything. He doesnt think that is appropriate since we do have kids so its not so much his "last night of freedom" or anything even though I really wouldnt mind. I trust him. That place sounds pretty cool though. I will check it out. Thanks! Good luck to you too!

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  • cantwaittobemrs
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    National Game? Or the O's!

    How about rock climbing? Or Dave and Busters.

    6 Flags, Busch Gardens, Kings Dominion.

    Rent a boat and go fishing in the bay.

    White water rafting in WV.

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  • Denise livin on 5
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    Just a suggestion...

    My FH was a groomsman for a wedding last spring for an older groom (48) and they went to Outback, then out for shooting pool, bowling and darts. They had a great time.

    I'm in Gettysburg... not to far

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  • Julie
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    Oh and BTW... I do wish that our wedding was during football season because a Ravens game would be perfect. lol... He isnt much for the O's though. He is a Red Sox fan and Dave and Busters is where we are going after the wedding for an afterparty since we have a daytime wedding. I am trying to find some comedy clubs or something that alow underage people in. His Best man is only 17 (its his brother) and so even the 18 and older clubs are out.

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  • Kelly Schneider
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    Get the boys to go camping/White water rafting... take a cooler... No driving and real bondiing.

    Just a thought!

    :-)

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  • cantwaittobemrs
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    How about Horse racing at plimamco?

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  • M&M
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    That's funny! He is a huge Orioles fan, and I am the Red Sox Fan! We were actually hoping to pull it off this September on a Saturday so we could go to a game on the following Sunday before taking off for our honeymoon. Smiley smile

    What about the Baltimore's Comedy Factory? Do you have to be 18? Some lady from Howard Stern is playing that night...

    http://www.citypaper.com/calendar/event.asp?whatID=140757

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  • Rosie
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    What about paintballing or something like that? Then afterwards, taking him to a nice big steak dinner? It doesn't get much more manly than guns and steak, haha.

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  • cantwaittobemrs
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    OOO I have another one: eat crabs and drink beer(at least you will have DD's)

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  • M&M
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    I'm with cantwaittobemrs....crabs are always a winner around here! Smiley smile

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  • cantwaittobemrs
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    I know! I'm craving them now!!

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    I think venues like bowling alleys, arcades, restaurants, etc. are good options since any age can enter but then those who want to drink can do so. Maybe some other options are like the "fun centers" with mini golf, go-carts, trampoline parties and such, or just go to an amusement park. But I don't know that they serve booze at all of those places, if that is important to your 21 and up guests.

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    Where in MD do you live? If its anywhere near the Baltimore area there are lots of things to do. They could go to Hard Rock or the ESPN zone. Both those places are 18 and over. Any of the restaurant/bars in Baltimore will allow under age people in. Ra is a great place to go. I could probably come up with more choices but no need to list them all unless I know you actually live near Baltimore.

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  • Natasha
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    I live in Maryland, too! Something like paintballing could be a lot of fun. That's probably what my FH will end up doing for his bachelor party.

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  • Not-A-Bridezilla
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    I live in MD and FH's bachelor party is actually tonight... the guys are taking a limo tour around DC to different bars/strip clubs (you can do w/o the strip clubs though). I'm sure if your man is interested in something like that you can call the limo company and they can tell you where the 18 clubs are

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  • Denise livin on 5
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    Yummy Crabs! Cant wait to go to DE and go crabbin

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    How about bowling, paintballing, maybe going to a shooting range, if there is a like recreational place around you for go-karting, laser tage, golfing or mini golf, fishing, swiming, a waterpark or indoor waterpark, amusement park, dirt bikes or 4 wheeling, I have the same problem not everyone is 21 or over so I know that the groomsmen have been trying to find other things to do besides going to a bar or something like that.

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