Baby bump in the road!

I think that would be long time between and would be more like a vow renewal.
If starting a family is that urgent to you both why not just have a nice small wedding with your family instead? After a baby you might not be able to save as much as you think you could now and would risk putting it off indefinitely.

Thank you for your input, Kelly! That is a great idea

View Quoted Comment Kelly has great points.
I would just have a smaller courthouse wedding with the families now and plan a vow renewal in the future.

Thank you Chandra! Yeah, I think it really is a good idea and best all around! I appreciate you ladies!

I agree. Definitely move the date up! Good luck

My FSIL has put off her wedding twice due to being pregnant twice. Now they've postponed indefinitely and they'll maybe do a vow renewal.

With that in mind, maybe do a smaller wedding now?

You don't even necessarily need to do a courthouse ceremony. You can do a park or somewhere else and have both the ceremony and a small reception there. If you do it at a non-meal time, you can have a cake and punch reception if it's between lunch and dinner. The guest list is the biggest factor in cost, so you cut the guest list and you can still have something nice for a small budget. It doesn't have to be courthouse or bust if you aren't set on that.

Thank you all so much for your input ladies!

View Quoted Comment Hey Elana Have you and your FS decide to have a courthouse wedding and vow renewal down the road? Or are you still thinking about what you will do?