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Expert August 2020

Baby After The Wedding?

Erin, on July 5, 2020 at 12:14 AM Posted in Married Life 1 56
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My fiancé and I are planning to have a baby after the wedding. Anyone else?! I’m getting anxious because we are almost a month away!

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  • Melle
    Rockstar June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I know some people who had a baby not long after their wedding.
    My husband and I are gonna give it a lot of time before we consider having one
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  • Jasmine
    Rockstar February 2021
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    We definitely plan on starting a family afterwards but we're just not sure how long after it will. We won't start until we buy a house which we're hoping will be around the time of our wedding next year. We'll just have to wait and see where everything else falls into place. We want to make sure we're as prepared as we can be.

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  • Fany
    Devoted October 2021
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    Heck no. I want to enjoy at least one year being married to my husband and travel and do the hockey pokey without any interruptions.
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  • Erin
    Expert August 2020
    Erin ·
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    Lol I love this! He also wants to wait and travel out of the county due to our honeymoon getting cancelled but I don’t want to wait 🤣.
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  • Michelle
    Rockstar October 2020
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    That was the plan after honeymoon lol but with covid idk. I really wanna go to Japan and I don’t think I can eat raw sushi and medium rare wagyu steak pregnant soooo that’s why I must visit my dream place first haha
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  • Michelle
    Rockstar October 2020
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    But I’m also 31... I don’t wanna wait too long!
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  • Kristina
    Dedicated July 2020
    Kristina ·
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    Yes, because of mine and my FH ages we want to start a family. I totally get it. I had a friend who got married last August and she got pregnant within 2 months of being married, she just had a baby girl.
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  • Rebecca
    Rockstar August 2019
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    We gave it about 5 months before TTC.

    It's really all about how you feel, and what you two want. Each couple is different!

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  • Elmarose04
    Devoted July 2021
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    My fiancé and I want twins!Smiley heart As long as you both are ready I believe it'll be a wonderful addition to your marriage and be a big blessing! so excited for you, best wishesSmiley smile

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  • A
    Super February 2020
    Andrea ·
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    We were going to start after the wedding, but then COVID happened. At the time there wasn’t sufficient data for our doctor to give us a clear to start, but we got the green light and will be trying soon Smiley smile
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  • Shana
    Dedicated October 2020
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    We plan to try after the wedding as well in 3 months! I’m nervous because I’ve never been pregnant, so obvious worries like will I be able to get pregnant? Will it take me months/ years?? Or who knows it may happen right away! So yes excited yet nervous for all of the what ifs.
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  • Mrs. S
    Super November 2019
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    We waited about 6 months after the wedding to start trying but haven’t been successful yet
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  • V
    Master July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    My husband and I immediately started trying to have a baby after we got married. Unfortunately after coming off birth control, I didn't have my period for months. I had to go on meds that would make me have my period then meds that would make me ovulate. I was diagnosed a couple of months ago with PCOS which makes conceiving more difficult. As of two months ago, I'm finally getting my period on my own so now I don't have to take the medication that brings on a period. My doctor has told us to continue trying for six months while on the ovulation medication and if that doesn't work I will have to see a fertility specialist.
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  • Christina
    Devoted July 2020
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    Waiting until we have a house. I really want to have a house before we have kids. Has PP said I have condition that makes fertility an issue so I’m hoping we can have our babies once the house is here ! But luckily we both are open to adoption
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  • Erin
    Expert August 2020
    Erin ·
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    Japan is definitely on my bucket list! So pretty! I feel you on being able to experience the food too. I always look forward to trying different foods when I travel! Not being able to would be a bummer!
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  • Erin
    Expert August 2020
    Erin ·
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    Lol I’m 31 too and he’ll be 37! Time is not on our side 🤣tenor.gif

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  • Erin
    Expert August 2020
    Erin ·
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    We are in the same boat! We have already miscarried once and decided to wait until after the wedding this time. I’m 31 and he will be 37!
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  • Erin
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    Erin ·
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    I want twins too! I’m a twin myself and it’s the best thing ever!!
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  • Erin
    Expert August 2020
    Erin ·
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    Yay!! So happy for you two. Congratulations and good luck!!
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  • Erin
    Expert August 2020
    Erin ·
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    That is so exciting!!! Good luck!
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