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Maui K
VIP May 2017

Babies at the reception

Maui K, on March 28, 2017 at 6:30 PM Posted in Planning 0 23

Should babies have their own spot at the table, or do you assume they'll be on their mom/dad's lap the whole time? My nephew will be almost 5 months at our wedding.

I'm thinking I should leave a seat for him that could be switched out for a high chair, or is he too little for one? I figured my sister could also put his little carrier/seat on top of the chair so he's not in his carrier on the ground.

23 Comments

Latest activity by karen, on March 28, 2017 at 8:27 PM
  • MrsLabrec
    VIP October 2017
    MrsLabrec ·
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    We aren't having children. Just the girls who are in the bridal party who are my nieces. But I would assume he would have a stroller and be with your sister the whole night

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  • Sunshine
    VIP September 2017
    Sunshine ·
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    Same question! And at what age do kids get their own chair? I know nothing about children sooooo no idea.

    ETA not to be an asshole but I don't understand commenting when you have absolutely nothing to add to the question?

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  • Orchids
    Master March 2018
    Orchids ·
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    Following, I don't know the first thing about babies or what's needed at what age.

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  • DoggoMom
    VIP August 2016
    DoggoMom ·
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    At 5 months they may not be able to sit in a highchair yet. Check with the mom and see. Sometimes they can't hold their head up until 6 months.

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  • Sylphier
    Super June 2017
    Sylphier ·
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    I have several infants that might be attending and I am leaving a chair space for each one between the parents, because when my son was an infant I took his car seat with me and set him in that for feeding him and to help me feed myself. Juggling a baby while also trying to feed yourself is difficult. Also parents can move the chair away and put the stroller there if they bring strollers - it's much easier to have the baby sitting out of the way, in a normal table space, rather than out where people are trying to walk.

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  • KCJV
    Super February 2018
    KCJV ·
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    I would probably leave a seat in case they have a car seat that they want to lay the baby down in.

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  • Maui K
    VIP May 2017
    Maui K ·
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    @Bailey, I wasn't sure if it just depended on the parent, or if there was some form of proper etiquette Smiley smile

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  • ambrok
    Master October 2017
    ambrok ·
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    I would think a 'seat' would be nice. Even if it's for all of the baby stuff that the parents bring...or eliminate the car & leave it open for stroller space. IMO, you should not have to pay for the littles' dinner though :o

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  • Maui K
    VIP May 2017
    Maui K ·
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    Thank you all! That's what I'm thinking. I'll be sure to have a space for the baby, whether that is a chair, high chair, or place to park the stroller Smiley smile id rather have it at the table than in a walk way Smiley smile

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  • lyla
    Master July 2017
    lyla ·
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    Most babies start sitting in a high chair around that age but you never know if the baby in question will. I think you should stick to a chair or an empty space for the stroller. Definitely depends on the unique baby in question.

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  • FaithD_2017
    VIP September 2017
    FaithD_2017 ·
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    Yes definitely save them a seat.

    @Jennifer T, most babies can hold their heads up at about 2 months. 4-6 months is rolling over and 6 months is sitting up, sometimes trying to crawl.

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  • OGJessieJV
    Master July 1867
    OGJessieJV ·
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    Have a seat. Babies come with a lot of shit. If I were going to a wedding when my son was that young, I would have had him in a wrap, but he was eating solid food at 5 months so you need to ask the mom if a high chair is necessary.

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  • K
    Savvy September 2018
    Kaitlyn ·
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    I have a 6 month old and honestly just having a spot for the stroller or somewhere to put the carseat would help! Sometimes high chairs don't always fit either, see if she is bringing a half high that can fit in a chair. I hope this helps!!

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  • Sharlean
    Dedicated August 2017
    Sharlean ·
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    I'm having a highchair for my daughter, she'll be 10 months for our wedding. My advice tho is to double check with your venue if they will have a high chair available for anyone needing and if not consider how you'll provide one for the little one Smiley smile I'll be bringing my own!

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  • Erin Wood
    Master July 2017
    Erin Wood ·
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    Good question! Following! I would assume they would have a seat so the carrier could go on it when not in use.

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  • Che
    Super June 2017
    Che ·
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    Add him but can he sit in the stroller

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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
    annakay511 ·
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    I would reserve a chair for him so she at least has a place for the carrier/her baby bag

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  • A.Magill.Since.May
    Master May 2018
    A.Magill.Since.May ·
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    I would say ask the parent, but also you may want to leave a spot open next to mom even though the babe is to young for the high chair so she has enough space to put the stroller/ carrier/ hell even diaper bag for caring for an extra human without crowding the people at her table.

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  • A&L
    Master April 2017
    A&L ·
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    We have high chairs and no table setting on those spots. Parents would either turn it upside down for a carseat or move it for a stroller.

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  • SLR
    Super November 2016
    SLR ·
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    I would just ask the moms if you can. We had two little ones at our reception and one didn't want a seat/high chair but asked if there was a place to feed, and the other brought a stroller and kept her daughter in the stroller the whole time. I think it's personal preference rather than etiquette when it comes to babies.

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