**Note this is all over the place and long**
This person and I were bestfriends from 5th grade until our Sr. year of high school. My Grandfather passed unexpectedly that year and his visitation was the same time as her baby shower so when I let her know I could no longer make the baby shower she tells me that I should be there because I had already said I was coming on the RSVP and she gave no sympathy to my Grandfathers passing and when I told her I would still bring her gift by her house later that day she told me don't bother so after that we stopped being friends. We graduated in 2015 and spoke for the first time since then Feb. of last year when I gave her some tips on things to do in Las Vegas because I had been twice and this was her first time going since then we had not spoken again until today.. I posted something on FB about ordering my wedding cake, and FHs ring today as well as saying we only have 109 days left until the wedding and then she sends me the message below. I'm not really sure how to reply to that. I don't want to be rude so I'm just not replying at the moment but at the same time she is not invited to my wedding. What should I do?