Hello! My fiance and I have been engaged since about 2017 and we finally set a date for October 2020. Once we were engaged I immediately had my bridesmaids picked; I had 3 best friends, and they all knew right away they were getting a formal ask at some point.
But between then and now, I made a new friend who is quickly becoming a best friend (I'll call her K) and she's very happy for me and my fiance and enthusiastic about our wedding. I'm considering asking her to be a 4th bridesmaid.
However, I'm a bridesmaids in an upcoming wedding for someone else (I'll call her A) whom I consider a friend but by no means close; however we did go to high school together. One of my original bridesmaids is best friends with A, but I am not.
Am I obligated to ask A to be a bridesmaid? She is aware K is a newer friend and may feel slighted if I asked someone I met recently (about 6 months ago) to be in my wedding party and not her because we went to high school together, and I was in her wedding. I'm okay with 4, but 5 is too many to me, my wedding guest list is only 75-85 people max and I wanted a small group. What should I do?
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