It's depend upon the man choice that he want to wear or not.
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June 2019
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Both my FH and my brother started wearing their rings as soon as they got them. I think its more traditional to wait but if they don't want to wait and want to show the world they are taken, by all means let them
It depends. My fiancee decided to wear a silicone wedding band a week after he proposed to me and we had a 17 month engagement. He wanted to wear it and feels good wearing it so I dont mind. I have no issue with him looking "extra" committed., lol.
My fiancé wants an "engagement ring" just to show he is engaged. But I don't agree. I feel like all he needs is a wedding band, which he will get at the ceremony.
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March 2021
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I purchased a black tungsten ring for my FH to wear for the time being and he wears it every day. I wear my own tungsten ring to work and only wear my engagement ring occasionally. We plan on going ring shopping later to choose our bands.
We actually just picked up my finance's band recently and he was telling me how he wanted to start wearing it so that he could get used to wearing something on his finger daily. I thought it was sweet but I told him he could if he really wanted to but for me I felt like it'll take the significance of the ring exchange on our wedding day away so he's waiting.
Typically, the man only has a wedding band so he will only wear it after the wedding. Women typically have an engagement ring & wedding band so they were the e ring prior and both after.
My Fiancé wanted everyone to know he's engaged so he wanted to buy a ring and wear it right away. When we found him his ring he started wearing it and we aren't getting married till next year. I say don't worry about the tradition and do what you guys want.
I don't think women even got engagement rings as a thing until the 1930s when diamond rings became popular and more affordable. Anyway, there aren't any hard and fast rules. Wear your rings whenever you want, exchange them again at the ceremony. I personally like the idea of no engagement ring for either party, then wearing wedding bands once married.
I have an engagement ring but my FW doesn't. She didn't want one, but especially after being apart right now, she wanted something to wear. We went with a silicone ring for now (which she'll probably wear more often than her wedding band in the future anyways), but we're still getting wedding bands to exchange. I plan on wearing my band and engagement ring, and she'll probably switch between her two bands.
A silicone ring or wearing the band on the right hand are definitely options if he wants something before the wedding!
I gave my fiancé a promise ring and he did to me as well. I’ve been wearing my engagement ring now and he’s been wearing his promise ring even after the engagement. However, we are buying him a wedding ring that he doesn’t want to wear until the wedding ceremony.
My fiancé wanted an engagement ring, so I got him a silicone band to wear before we're officially married. He said it's an outdated idea that only the woman shows she is taken during engagement and he wanted to display he is "taken" too. I could not care less about what's "traditional" either so there's that!
I bought my fh an engagement ring. If I get one why can’t he? He wears it on his right hand though because someone at work told him it was “bad luck” to wear it on his left. He won’t be wearing his actual wedding band until our wedding.
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October 2020
Lisa ·
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My FH told me if I wear a ring to show the world I am engaged, then he will wear one also, so he wears a silicone ring. Once we are married he will wear his real ring.
He recently told some of his friends the reason why he wears a ring and they all surprisingly agreed!