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Monica
Devoted May 2016

Are veils only for religious ceremonies?

Monica, on April 12, 2016 at 10:58 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 34

So my fiancée and I are going to get married in a small outdoor ceremony, but it is not religious. A friend of ours is getting married and I already have a veil, but now all my family is telling me that veils are traditionally just for the religious ceremony. How true is this?

So my fiancée and I are going to get married in a small outdoor ceremony, but it is not religious. A friend of ours is getting married and I already have a veil, but now all my family is telling me that veils are traditionally just for the religious ceremony. How true is this?

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  • Monica
    Devoted May 2016
    Monica ·
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    Hahaha @futureMrsH I hope my FH doesn't run away.

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  • LeahKtoL
    Super August 2016
    LeahKtoL ·
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    Not having a religious ceremony, but I am wearing a veil. (don't mind the sweatshirt)


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  • Kristy
    Master November 2015
    Kristy ·
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    I don't know that the old tradition is, but I feel like most brides wear veils now! Well, I sure did and we had an outdoor non-religious wedding ceremony. Go for it! Smiley smile

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  • O
    Super April 2016
    Ostrich ·
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    Https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Veil

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  • NativeBride
    Super October 2016
    NativeBride ·
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    I never heard of that. Go for it!

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  • SAD
    VIP March 2016
    SAD ·
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    I don't think it has that connotation anymore. I wore one and didn't have a religious ceremony!

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  • Monica
    Devoted May 2016
    Monica ·
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    Thank you! My family might still side eye me but whatever.

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  • R
    Savvy October 2016
    Rachel ·
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    Wear whatever you want. It's your wedding.

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  • A Bride
    Super August 2016
    A Bride ·
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    Funnily enough, at first I didn't want a veil because of the religious undertones, but then I decided I wanted one after all because it was pretty.

    Do what makes you happy!

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  • Orisha
    Dedicated July 2017
    Orisha ·
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    I think it's just for the first look for your honey. Don't think anything in bible saying you can't be fabulous too. Correct me if I'm wrong please

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  • L
    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Lorraine ·
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    The veil was a sign of respect. In Jewish and Christian tradition the women were accustomed to cover their heads out of respect. Veils are ordinarily for a church wedding. Why wear a veil if you're not getting married in a church or synagogue? Meaningless!
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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
    Mrsbdg ·
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    I wore a veil and had no religion in my wedding so I'd say that's an older belief.
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  • L
    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Lorraine ·
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    Yes. Mostly for religious ceremonies. Look at all the princesses like diana, Kate, and now Meghan markle how beautiful their wedding and veils are. In the beautiful church. A wedding is not really a wedding unless it's in a church or synagogue. Sorry that's how I see it.
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  • Hannah
    Just Said Yes September 2024
    Hannah ·
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    I think nowadays if people arent wearing it for religious reasons then they just like the look and want to. I'm not sure if i'm going to yet.

    Here's a fun excerpt "The bridal veil ... dates back to ancient Rome when they would wrap the brides from head to toe in a veil to hide her away from “spirits that might want to thwart her happiness.” People also saw that delivering a bride in a veil represented her being a “modest and untouched maiden.” Under different patriarchal societies, people used the veil as a way to protect the bride’s face from her husband and the wedding guests. Once the veil was lifted, it had meant that she was no longer under the ownership of her father and brothers.

    https://britebeauty.com/brite-beauty-weddings/2021/8/2/wedding-traditions-the-history-of-the-veil#:~:text=It%20dates%20back%20to%20ancient,different%20patriarchal%20societies%2C%20people%20used

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