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ImpatientlyWaiting
Savvy October 2017

Are appetizers necessary?

ImpatientlyWaiting, on June 23, 2017 at 8:25 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 38

We're getting married on a Friday and our timeline looks like this

Ceremony 4-430

Cocktail hour 430-6 (90 mins required to flip ceremony space)

Dinner 630 (dances and march beforehand)

Dancing 8-12

My question is do we need to serve appetizers during cocktail hour?? If so, how many pieces would you order for a 120 guest list?

Right now I'm thinking out that $$ towards the bar. Thoughts?

38 Comments

Latest activity by Nicole, on June 25, 2017 at 11:32 AM
  • Danielle
    VIP March 2017
    Danielle ·
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    For an hour and a half? Definitely yes.

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  • ArtsyAlicia
    Devoted June 2018
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    I would do apps. If people are coming from work they likely wouldn't have been able to eat a snack and I would need food before 6:30...I'm also always hungry.

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  • M
    VIP November 2017
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    Absolutely have them no questions asked!

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  • Bemyguest
    Master April 2017
    Bemyguest ·
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    Yes, why would you take money from the bar and put it towards apps? you need both. open bar and plenty of apps.

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  • Nicole2017
    Master August 2017
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    Absolutely you need food! Esp since your cocktail hour is longer than normal

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  • Melissa
    Devoted September 2018
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    If youre having an hour and half gap you for sure need apps.....your guests will be starving by 630

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  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
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    You need to feed people to avoid them getting drunk during cocktail hour and a half.

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  • Flying
    Master May 2017
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    Definite yes

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  • BoudreauToBe
    Master July 2018
    BoudreauToBe ·
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    You definitely need something substantial. I can drink 2-3 drinks in an hour and a half. I'd definitely need food to go along with it!

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  • MnmsMonique
    Super June 2018
    MnmsMonique ·
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    Yes, 1 1/2 hours is quite long to wait. Plus many people may have not eaten since lunch.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Yes you do. At least 5-10 pieces and a cold display if not more.

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  • CoffeeNColor
    Master August 2017
    CoffeeNColor ·
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    It would be irresponsible to not have appetizers while serving cocktails, wine and beer. The bar is heaviest hit during cocktail hour. People will definitely need food to balance out their drinks.

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  • fallinthegarden
    Master October 2017
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    I'd be one hangry drunk after a cocktail hour and a half with no food.

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  • kahlcara
    Master August 2013
    kahlcara ·
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    Yes, definitely feed people during cocktail hour. Also, that seems like a really long reception.

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  • Jacks
    Champion November 2054
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    You need apps and a bar.

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  • BlushingBride
    VIP October 2017
    BlushingBride ·
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    I was told you plan for 3-4 per a person. We too are having a Friday wedding

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  • MrsMcK
    VIP September 2017
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    Yes is this a serious question?

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  • Daniella
    VIP October 2017
    Daniella ·
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    I can get awful drunk in an hour and a half. Definitely offer apps. Your caterer should be able to advise you on amounts per person.

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  • Celia Milton
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    3-4 pp on a Friday night where people are probably coming right from work is not remotely enough.

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  • Harts&Bows
    VIP September 2017
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    Yes on apps

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