Anyone have any Monster In-laws?

At first, They were very cooperative! My FMIL was very helpful and wanted to be in the loop about everything, at times she would be very pushy about things but it was all out of love, at least i thought. We have had a falling out about 6 months ago, and Every since then, they have added more stress anything! Fights, and Drama, She has even went as far as befriending my MOH to cause drama which ending in me having to let my MOH go.

FMIL is pretty low key. She and FH have a close-ish relationship which almost posed a problem earlier in our relationship. He thought I wasn't being "kind" enough towards her (not doing enough for her when she came over, not talking to her as much)-I'm southern. That isn't a thing I am capable of!

She is a sweet person and sometimes doesn't know when she's overstepped. Thankfully, a gentle nudge in the right direction fixes it. FSIL is great. Once she opens up to you, she is very fun. Her personality is a "professional" one. I don't know how best to describe it but she is incredibly hard-working and she takes pride in doing the right thing and thinking things all the way through. Her analytical prowess is something to behold. All in all, The three of them are very different, but great in their own ways. I consider myself fortunate, and hugs to all y'all out there who are struggling with this! XOXOX

I did... lately its not been so good. FMIL asks my opinion on things that she has offered to buy and i have different taste then her, so she gets huffy when i don't like something and its ridiculous. She wants to buy us $100 champagne flutes which i will not use ever again. My fiance hates champagne. She stopped asking and just keeps buying stuff we don't need. I ignore it now. My bridal shower is a battle between my FMIL and FSIL. I like them both and stay out of there personal feelings toward each other but it leaks out to my fiance.

I love my Future MIL ❤️ Can’t really stand his brother & 2 of his cousins but other than that we’re good