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Alexandria
Devoted January 2019

Anyone else fighting with their fiancé more than usual?

Alexandria, on September 7, 2018 at 11:58 AM

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We're 4 months out and we've been arguing more than ever! What appointments need to be made, appointment times, what we should spend more money on, what we want or don't want......UGH! Please tell me this is just a phase and it'll go back to normal once the wedding is over.
We're 4 months out and we've been arguing more than ever! What appointments need to be made, appointment times, what we should spend more money on, what we want or don't want......UGH!
Please tell me this is just a phase and it'll go back to normal once the wedding is over.

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    Super October 2018
    Cassandra ·
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    Weddings are so stressful, and I believe it is common.

    Here is what my fiance and i do to help eliminate the stress. We have one day a week where there is no wedding or money talk whatsoever.

    We do do our own little date night at our house, and dedicate that for us. It is the best time, doing something as simple as cooking dinner together, playing cards, etc

    this will ease tension and stress and help you stay refresh. I know sometimes all you think about is the wedding, but it is nice to have a break.
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  • Alexandria
    Devoted January 2019
    Alexandria ·
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    This is a great idea! I feel like we haven't had fun lately, it's just been so stressful with wedding talk and finances with moving into a new home! Definitely going to make.iy a point to do something fun once a week
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  • MaryClare
    Dedicated November 2018
    MaryClare ·
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    Yes adding extra stress of wedding planning is hard. I’ve had a couple of breakdowns where I end up crying over silly things. I found that what helps is calmly telling FH what I need and when I need done by and also planning a date night where you don’t talk about the wedding. Talk about anything else, the honeymoon, the future, something you’re looking forward to after you get married. It’s so easy to get caught up with all the stress of planning but don’t forget to nurture your relationship, you should never stop dating each other even after marriage and kids. Take a night to take a time out and remember why you’re marrying him in the first place. I myself am taking a person day today where I do no wedding planning! And I have no obligations to be anywhere. And I can’t tell you how much I’m looking forward to it lol.
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