Anyone else depressed? so tired of planning

I think Celia gave some great advice! You definitely want to be able to enjoy the whole process...at least most of it! If it's not fun right now and making you too stressed out, take a break and then see if a friend/relative can help you out with some projects or just discussing ideas to get the spark of excitement back! Think of all the fun you're going to have with your closest family and friends celebrating you and you fiance tying the knot! :-)

Im so ready to be done planning. ive been engaged for almost 2 years now. so taking my time has made the time go by so slow. so ready to be married

I have just realized that I am feeling more like this. In the beginning I was down because I wasn't making any purchases and it just wasn't feeling real to me. Now i am starting to make more purchases for the wedding and I still feel down a lot. I think it is because there are certain details of the wedding that I want but I just cant do them or get them because the cost is just becoming more than my budget will allow. Hopefully when it gets closer to the wedding I will feel better. Its me and my mom doing all of the planning.

Yea I HATE planning and we can't afford a wedding planner. I just want to be married and go on our honeymoon

I am sure as it gets closer I am sure you will find your spark again! Good luck

I've been feeling the same way. Burnt out!!! I just want to be married too. When I start feeling bad I just talk to someone about it. I talk to my FH about it often, he makes me feel better by saying who cares about other people or what they will think, this is our wedding and if someone has something negative to say they will be asked to leave. If you can't talk to him then try someone in the wedding party if not a bestie!

I'm sorry all you girls are going through this. Wedding planning can definitely become a burden. I have health problems, not mental health related, but stress makes it soooo much worse. We're hoping to avoid the crazy stress by having a long engagement and just getting little things done here and there. Happy planning to you all!!

I know how you feel hun!! I mull over everything, I am constantly looking at things and I just cannot seem to make a decision!!! Blah!

I'm doing great ladies, I realize it's up and down but what one of you said about enjoying it all while it lasts is true, we're planning the day of our dreams, yes it's stressful at times but ultimately it's going to be the best day ever! I need to exercise more that's been my missing link. I'm used to staying active and this hermiting in the house to wedding plan is what's getting to me. Yoga tomorrow!