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Amina
Dedicated January 2020

Annoyed with bridesmaids

Amina, on September 19, 2019 at 7:48 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 23

Currently less than 4 months out from the big day and not one of my bridesmaids have ordered their dresses. We’re ordering from Azazie and a lot of people on here have said they’ve ordered close to the date and we’re okay but I’m getting nervous. One girl still hasn’t joined the showroom and a few...
Currently less than 4 months out from the big day and not one of my bridesmaids have ordered their dresses. We’re ordering from Azazie and a lot of people on here have said they’ve ordered close to the date and we’re okay but I’m getting nervous. One girl still hasn’t joined the showroom and a few keep asking about the info for the dress like where to get it. My FH’s cousins gf
, who also lives with us over a year during the engagement still thinks she can just walk into a store and buy the dress. I’ve given them constant reminders since May and I’m getting really frustrated that these “adults” can handle accomplishing one simple task. If they don’t have a dress I’m not about to be running around like a chicken with it’s head cut off trying to figure out a back up plan because they couldn’t handle one simple thing. I’ll be really disappointed but they would just have to come as guests. Anyone else experience this or have any advice??

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  • Amber
    Devoted April 2022
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    I would send them all a message that says something to the affect of “if your dress isn’t ordered by X date, then I’d be happy to have you attend the wedding as a guest instead of a bridesmaid.” These are grown ass women, you shouldn’t have to hound them about it. I haven’t personally ordered from Azazie so maybe they do still have time to order their dress and get the necessary alterations, but I don’t think you need the extra stress of last minute dresses.
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  • Michelle
    Devoted October 2019
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    I am 2 weeks from our wedding day and I found out that one of my bridesmaids hasn't even requested that day off and she gets annoyed with me when i ask her if she has heard about whether or not her request for that day has been approved or not since she waited til the last minute.

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  • Amina
    Dedicated January 2020
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    I agree! Lol I think I’m gonna have my sister/ MOH send a text to everyone that they need to order by absolutely no later than November 15th or they can just come as a guest. There’s no excuse after 9 months of reminders you can’t do one simple task
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