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Savvy May 2016

Announce Unofficial After Party at Reception?

Private User, on May 10, 2016 at 2:57 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8

Our reception ends at 6pm on the Sunday before Memorial Day. There's a bar directly across the street where my mom ordered big batches of appetizers for anyone who wants to keep the party going. We don't plan to pay for drinks.

Do we have the DJ announce this after party or just rely on word of mouth? If the DJ announces, how can we make it clear that we're not buying drinks without being tacky?

8 Comments

Latest activity by FutureMrsCarlstad, on May 10, 2016 at 4:32 PM
  • Ashley589
    Super August 2016
    Ashley589 ·
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    I wouldn't announce it if you're not paying. Just spread it by word of mouth.

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  • Ellsy62
    Master October 2017
    Ellsy62 ·
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    Yeah, I would just tell people.

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  • S
    Savvy May 2014
    Sandra ·
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    We did this. Spread it by word of mouth beforehand. We paid for plenty of booze during the reception of course, but no one was assuming we were paying for drinks at the bar.

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  • Missys984
    Master October 2015
    Missys984 ·
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    We did this and we spread it by word of mouth and on our website. We provided food for everyone but people had to pay for their own drinks. I don't think people expected to have food/ drinks paid for so to at least have food guests were pleasantly surprised. And it was Mexican food so no complaints. I'm not sure many people actually drank because most of our guests were feeling good at this point.

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  • Brandy Blackford
    Brandy Blackford ·
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    Word of mouth, and everyone knows that after parties pay for their own alcohol.

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  • SummerS
    Master January 2016
    SummerS ·
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    We did this as well for our after party. We put it on the website and also spread by word of mouth. I think I worded it on the website as a "no-host afterparty" for those that needed clarification they would be responsible for their own drinks, though I really don't think many people would expect to be hosted at the after party. We did provide lots of casual apps on all the tables we reserved and brought the whole bottom tier of the cake we had left over. It was a hit!

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    Savvy May 2016
    Private User ·
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    Great feedback! Thanks, ladies!

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  • FutureMrsCarlstad
    VIP November 2016
    FutureMrsCarlstad ·
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    I was wondering about this as well! Our venue has an on-site bar that is separate from our reception booze. I will have to keep this in mind Smiley smile

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