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Master August 2014

Anniversary Dance (A Different Spin)

Nay, on December 18, 2013 at 3:06 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 14

For those of you who don't know what an Anniversary Dance is, it is when all the married couples at the reception dance and the DJ asks who has been married 5 years or less, and they exit, and 10 years or less and they exit, and so on. The last couple on the floor has been married the longest gets a gift.

I mentioned to our DJ that we would like to do this and he is going to put a different twist on it. He said instead of couples starting out on the dance floor and being told to leave, he said why not have everyone remain in their seats and ask who has been married 5 years or less, they stand and get applause and sit. And then 10, 20, etc. The couple who has been married the longest comes out to the dance floor to have a dance by themselves and then the other married couples join them and congratulate them.

I like this way better and figured I'd share in case anyone is planning on doing this, this way may be a different option Smiley smile

14 Comments

Latest activity by Nay, on December 18, 2013 at 4:55 PM
  • MrsWilliams
    VIP September 2014
    MrsWilliams ·
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    Good Idea!!

    It's your wedding boo, do what u want =)

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  • Emily
    Super June 2014
    Emily ·
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    I've never heard of this idea but I absolutely love the twist that you are putting on it! I'm going to try and remember this for our wedding possibly.... thanks so much for sharing!

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  • Mrs Drakthal
    Master September 2013
    Mrs Drakthal ·
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    We kind of did something similar to this at our wedding. We gave a speech to H's mom and dad about how they are our example of how to be a loving happily married couple, and then had them play their first dance song from their wedding "UnChained Melody" then they insisted we join them, and then their other children with their spouses joined them and then the rest of the couples joined them.

    Talk about "feeling the love"

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  • Emily
    Super June 2014
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    @Erin C when I read this, I envisioned the first couple coming out to dance by themselves for about 30 seconds and then the DJ inviting the other married couples joining them for the rest of the song. I think that would be a really nice way to do it!

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  • Nay
    Master August 2014
    Nay ·
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    Exactly Emily Smiley smile

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  • We'llAlwaysHaveParis
    Master November 2013
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    Yeah, however you want to do it is fine, but I like the original way :-P

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  • Eleanor
    VIP October 2014
    Eleanor ·
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    I would only do this if you knew which couple was going to get the dance and that they'd want to do it. Some people are shy. It's an adorable idea though.

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  • Kristina
    Super September 2015
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    A friend of mine did something along the same lines at his wedding.

    Couples had to "show them how it's done" with a kiss. What was supposed to be a cute little moment turned so wild and became a competition with every couple to follow. It was hilarious. One of our best friends dipped his girlfriend and pushed his chair back/down by accident at the same time. It was "on" from that moment lmao.

    I want to do something like this as well. However, I'm going to ask couples to dance as we call the year group so then it's a large group on the dance floor at the end. Then I'll call up the "eldest" couple and if they're comfortable, gift them on stage and if not, put it at their seats as they dance with the rest of the guests.

    It's a good way to get people on the dance floor and stay there.

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  • Nay
    Master August 2014
    Nay ·
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    Not worried about my crowd. I know it will be my aunt and uncle who are 80 and have married the longest and they have no problem with the spotlight. We love the idea and are doing it.

    Just figured I'd share something I found interesting Smiley smile

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  • Nay
    Master August 2014
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    Lol Kristina. There will be no kissing competition. Our families are too CRAZY and unpredictable for that. lol

    And Jaime don't attack me Smiley sad Only kidding. Couldn't resist. Saw that on another thread. *snicker*

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  • Kristina
    Super September 2015
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    LOL That's the best part though! Wedding's should be a ton of fun and what better then to let everyone set their wild side free for a bit? Underline the word, A BIT lmao. My fiance's family is the same way. I already warned the venue rep's that there WILL be woman dancing on the chairs to "I Will Survive" - guaranteed. lmao.

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  • Stephanie
    Master November 2014
    Stephanie ·
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    One anniversary dance someone suggested that I liked was to start out with the couple that had been married the longest, and then count down, so that as the song continues, more and more people can come onto the dance floor.

    My friend did an anniversary dance at her wedding, and it was SUPER awkward. Her brother-in-law and sister-in-law were out of the room when the dance started, so they walked in and thought, "Oh, a nice slow song we can dance to!" The DJ actually told them, multiple times on the mic, to get off the dance floor. Really awkward. So honestly, if you're going to do an anniversary dance, it might be better to do it backwards.

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  • Karla
    Dedicated April 2014
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    We are doing ours backwards. My FH and I will start on the dance floor together and then the DJ will call couples onto the dance floor by years of marriage, 1 yr, 5yrs, 10yrs, etc until most of our guests are on the dance floor. I think it's a good way to get people out of their seat to dance!

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  • Nay
    Master August 2014
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    I like that way too Karla Smiley smile

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