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Olivia
Savvy October 2020

Am i overreacting?

Olivia, on April 10, 2020 at 1:41 AM

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So my FH and I were laying in bed just talking about stuff. Life’s been pretty stressful recently and I’m slowly just losing my mind. Well I asked him if he still thought we should get married and his response was “well a lot of moneys been sunk into it already so...” well I obviously just drew up...
So my FH and I were laying in bed just talking about stuff. Life’s been pretty stressful recently and I’m slowly just losing my mind. Well I asked him if he still thought we should get married and his response was “well a lot of moneys been sunk into it already so...” well I obviously just drew up and it really hurt. When I told him he said that “oh it’s just been stressful. I didn’t mean I don’t want to marry you” but..... what do y’all think?? I’m honestly hurt by it and I made the decision after about an hour long conversation that went NO WHERE to just leave the room and now I’m on the couch to think.

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  • Alejandra
    Super November 2021
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    This, 100%. I understand being hurt by it and honestly that answer would make me stop and think too. But in my relationship, most arguments stem from miscommunication. My FH is also very analytical. If I asked him “should we still get married?” Or anything like that his mind automatically goes to the logistics of stuff, not emotional things or whether or not we love each other.
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