Was out to eat with the FH and ran into one of my girlfriends. We used to be close but we lost touch and just recently reconnected on fb. After a few minutes of chit chat she asks that question..."am I m invited" I simply told her it is a medium size wedding and I do have a plan b list if people cant come. That is the only stressful part... everyone cant come and if you have to ask... that should be a clear indication, of no, you are not invited. how do you handle it? that question caught me off guard.