Usually the first thing people ask is how did he proposed! Well, technically he hasn't. We sat down and talked about marriage and decided we would get married and picked a date. The wedding is 10/10 and we just picked out and purchased a ring two months ago. It definitely feels real but I haven't wanted to wear a ring without the "ask". He's not super romantic and we are running out of time. He has said he wanted it to be a surprise but it's hard to do since I know about the ring. So do I just give up my dream of the romantic ask and wear the ring? Idk....this is both of our 2nd marriages and I just want it to be perfect as can be. The pandemic hasn't made things easy.