Am I a Bridezilla if.....

To me, you can want whatever you want for your wedding but when you become bitchy or mean or bossy, you've hit bridezilla point.

The latest one that I can't even take back no matter how bad I feel because three girls already purchased them...

Am I a bridezilla if I ask my BP to buy their own dresses AND cowboy boots?

If you want your bridesmaids to wear their hair up because you're wearing yours down, you're not a bridezilla ... unless you make them pay for the up-do. If you want your bridesmaids to wear long dresses, you're not a bridezilla. And if you want to just quit and elope, you're not a bridezilla ... you're me!

Am I bridezilla if I make all my bridesmaids wear extentsions because I don't like their hair? llol

Am I a bridezilla if I tell my bridesmaids they need to loose a few pounds so they can look "smooth" in their dresses.lol

These are just thoughts than have ran through my head, I havent made any requests on this wise...lol

I'm with you on the destination wedding!!! The more posts I see on here about beach weddings and elopements, I'm so tempted...

@Angel to me, asking them to lose weight/making them change their hair falls under the "mean" category...sorry!

Angel I seriously just about fell out of my chair laughing!!

Stephanie you and I should come up with an escape plan and ditch everything else!

Liz, I think that would make me a Bridezilla cause I ain't paying for nobodies dress but my own! lol

@Lisa I know I know lol

I didn't ask them and I wont. Just thoughts lol

Am I bridezilla if I want to make my officiant (female friend) and usher (male friend) walk down the aisle together even though they told me "no" last night?

Am I bridezilla if I write a script for our officiant to follow and threaten to tackle her if she begins embarrassing stories? LOL

Lol@rachel, you sound like me. At our reception, when people make the "toasts". I wanted to write everyone's speech but FH was like um no. lol

I just dont want them saying anything dumb, or embarassing.

Haha, I am MAKING my girls get updo's because I'm wearing my hair down! They're also wearing flats and I'm in heels, they'll have straps and I'll be strapless, and the'll be in cocktail length dresses. Complete opposite

I don't think we're bridezillas!

Lol I love this thread. I don't think I've had any crazy thoughts though, maybe closer to the wedding! HAHA.

@angel, OMG toasts, too! I know. I want people to say normal stuff and I hate surprises.

Oh, am I bridezilla if I purposely put my BMs (FH's teenage daughters) in dresses that cover them because they have big chests and I don't? LMAO

I think that everyone reaches a point in wedding planning where it gets so stressful and overwhelming that you just want to cancel everything and elope! But when the day comes, it is all worth it!

@FutureMrsO... I cancel my wedding in my mind like 5 times a week..lol

Lol @Rachel.. I would too!

Am I a Bridezilla if I want my girls to get it already that IF they have a black dress - please show me and I'll probably say they can wear it for the wedding. If I don't like it, they are not freaking wearing it and standing as a BM - they can pick from a selection of three since I'm paying for the damn things or go as a guest.

I've asked myself if I'm being a Bridezilla a few times but came to the conclusion (family agreed) that my tolerance for BS was just getting lower.

@Angel- I so wanted to do this with our toasts! I know my dad is going to say something super embarrassing. My FH wants to nix the toasts altogether. I don't hate that plan, you never know what will come out of his brother's mouth (his BM).

Am I a brideszilla if I asked my outlier BM what her tattoo situation was before picking out dresses? Yep, probably since posts blow up when brides say they want their BMs to cover their tattoos. I simply asked what the situation was.

Well, I don't consider myself a bridezilla... ever really.