Ok ladies I need some advice!
Long story short (without giving too much personal details) my FH’s uncle has had some health problems as well as addiction issues. He had multiple surgeries in November (due to his addictions causing a fall) and I was the only person in our state to help. My FH and other uncle and the rest of the family was in NJ where either they live or work. I took on, helping him with surgeries in the hospital and being there, having to be the fill in Power of Attorney, and contact person for his care. He receives state assistance so I was holding the funds in his account trying to create a nest egg for him so to speak so when he was out, he would have some money unlike most times when he spends it on booze or to send to his dysfunctional wife (separated) who also gets state assistance at 50 yrs. old. No judgment there.
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