One of my FH's (former) groomsmen (now groomswoman), came out as a transgender woman a few months ago. We are both very accepting and super excited that she still wants to be in the wedding party (there are a few guests that might make things awkward). Prior to this, we had decided that the groomsmen would all wear pink dress shirts and gray suits to match with the overall theme. That is now where our issue is. The groomswoman has expressed discomfort at the idea of wearing a men's suit since she no longer identifies that way, which is completely understandable. We are trying to now find something that she can wear that will allow her to feel comfortable as well as be something we would both be okay with. I want to make sure she is able to still appear as feminine as she is comfortable with while also still matching the groomsman. This leaves the main choice being a woman's suit, whether pant or skirt, to choose from. When mentioned, there seemed to be some minor pushback from her on wanting to wear a female version of a suit, partially because the few she found quickly looking were too bulky in her mind.
I guess I am looking for some advice on how to handle this situation. Has anyone dealt with this before? What compromise did you come to to keep everyone happy and comfortable? Does anyone have any good recommendations on places that sell nice looking women's suits/ formal attire that we could send her way?
Any help would be greatly appreciated 
