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Just Said Yes September 2020

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Kay, on November 10, 2019 at 4:57 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 7

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I'm going to marry the love of my life we have been together for almost 10 years I've finally found a dress we actually agreed on a color everything seems perfect except one thing i dont get along with his mom and sister we dont even talk but I know family is important to him but these people dont like me they tried to tear are relationship apart several times they have no respect for me at all ..I told my fh that I didnt want them at the wedding or reception am I wrong ?

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Latest activity by Vicky, on November 12, 2019 at 11:13 PM

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Emily · on November 10, 2019 at 5:01 PM
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They are still his family. I would have him talk to them and tell them that they are going to have to behave.
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Just Said Yes September 2020
Kay · on November 10, 2019 at 5:03 PM
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We tried that already and the disrespect still continues
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Pirate & 60s Bride · on November 10, 2019 at 5:04 PM
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This.
It’s not your place to uninvite his family. But he needs to set boundaries with them and explain they need to respect you. If they don’t behave, he’ll needs to address their behavior directly with them.
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Natalie · on November 10, 2019 at 5:39 PM
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I don't think you can dis-invite his family. First of all, if your relationship with them is bad now, how bad do you think it will be after you don't let a mother come to her own son's wedding? You will be a villain to that entire side of the family. Unless there's more to the story like they physically assaulted you or something, that's too extreme.
That said it's up to your FH to manage his family. If he first talk didn't work he needs to do it again. And again. And again. Until it either works or he decides to cut contact out of respect/solidarity with you.
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Kay · on November 10, 2019 at 5:48 PM
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Agreed..and thank you
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Just Said Yes September 2020
Kay · on November 10, 2019 at 5:48 PM
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Thank you ..
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Vicky · on November 12, 2019 at 11:13 PM
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Can you give some examples of this disrespect?
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