Okay so this weekend I had a huge falling out with a friend/bridesmaid. And like many of you others I never saw it coming or could ever imagine it happening. There's a lot more detail to the drama but I won't go into that.
I'm really here to ask your thoughts on How I go about asking my FSIL to be a bridesmaid? She knows I already chose my bridesmaids and was okay with me not asking her initially. I have 2 sisters of my own, a best friend from college (11 years now) and the one best friend from high school who up till recently was a great friend. (things got wonky, dramatic and hate/hurtful this weekend). FH was okay with not asking his sister knowing that I had these 4 chosen since forever.
So enough of the back story. I want to ask his sister to be apart of my bridal party without offending her (like she's 2nd best/choice). What should I say/do? I really love the crap out of my FSIL and we get along wonderfully and want her apart of my bridesmaids
