Addresses

My Future sis in law is getting married this year, so I mooched off her guest list for a lot of addresses! If your parents want them invited, have your parents get the addresses. I dug around my contacts, I keep them pretty detailed so I had a bunch of stuff, and other than that I texted whoever was left. I'll be asking my fiance to round up his extended families addresses.

It is okay to text, or call. As long as you are doing it, ask them to give the title and name you prefer they use, and that of any SO, spouse or child. Say that you rarely address close friends by their titles and last names , and wish to be courteous and address them as they prefer to be addressed, or introduced to others. You will be giving names to shower or other party hosts, and addressing 1-3 thank you notes, plus an invitation, plus seating charts and placecards for the table. So, get it right, from them.