a Heartbreaking Decision

Haha yep! I asked my fiance and he said "you of course" and I was like "thanks that's good to know"

Hey Trista, I was just curious about why your answer is different if you had children beforehand or if it was your first child?

Hello, where did you find the article? I wanted to read it but I can't seem to find it via Google

I understand. Have the two of you had this conversation?

I understand. When will you and your spouse have the conversation?

I'm glad you had the conversation.

I didn't read an article. I watched this video: https://youtu.be/7o5hfRamAR4

Thank you for clarifying.

Oh okay, I had the conversation with my husband last night after posting this discussion.

Thanks for sharing.

We haven't had this exact conversation, but we have talked about how our future children are the number one priority when the time comes. My FH biggest dream is to be a father. I'm not sure if he could actually bring himself to make the decision to potentially end my life in that moment, but as a hypothetical situation I would want him to save the baby over me.

Your response reminded me of another discussion that I wanted to create "Who Comes First, Your Spouse or Your Children?"

I understand your perspective.

I don't know if we will. I feel like he needs to be able to make decisions based on the medical information available.

Thank you for sharing.

I haven't gotten pregnant (yet?) but my husband and I had this conversation. We came to the conclusion that if it came down to a choice, he should choose me.