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FutureMrsFitch
Devoted May 2014

A bit pissed off..

FutureMrsFitch, on March 26, 2014 at 7:12 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 24

I don't really post but I'm at a loss.. So I saw my RSVP list for my bridal shower (I'm a control freak & was being nosy lol) and none of the groomsmen wives are attending. All 6 woman. 6 woman who I've known for the past 15 years & attended every single kid bday party or bridal shower or some...

I don't really post but I'm at a loss.. So I saw my RSVP list for my bridal shower (I'm a control freak & was being nosy lol) and none of the groomsmen wives are attending. All 6 woman. 6 woman who I've known for the past 15 years & attended every single kid bday party or bridal shower or some event. We all get together every few months, husbands included to do date night. Just last week I left wrk early (it's tax season I wrk 6 days a week) to attend a baby shower for one of the women.

I'm really at a loss.. Common courtesy ? Friendship? I am wrong for being pissed?

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  • windinyourhair
    Super May 2014
    windinyourhair ·
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    Maybe they have something else going on? I would be annoyed or disappointed for sure, but not everyone is able to attend those events. :/

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  • THE Mrs. Russell
    VIP June 2014
    THE Mrs. Russell ·
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    Have they spoken to you or explained why they couldn't attend? Maybe they haven't RSVP'd yet?

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  • Me and Mr. B
    VIP August 2014
    Me and Mr. B ·
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    I am sorry. I would be upset as well. I am also another one that goes above and beyond for my friends and it does hurt when they don't reciprocate.

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  • Aronna
    Master October 2014
    Aronna ·
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    I would be displeased as well, but like you said, many have kids. it can be so hard to make plans for the kids to be taken care of to attend things that may be one of the reasons.

    I wouldn't take it too personally. it's a downer I know, but it happens.

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