95 days left and the wedding jitters are hitting hard.

I agree. I hate wedding planning. It's making me so grouchy.

I'm at the point where, if SOMEONE doesn't help me, maybe there won't be a wedding.

I spent all weekend DIYing my invites and honestly, I'm so worn out. They're looking good, though, but dang. Bride needs a break, yo.

I'm a week after you and feel similar. I haven't had cold feet about the marriage at all, but I have had cold feet about the wedding. I think I'm just tired of decisions and ready to be married. I also think, because I've spent so much time working on it, I really want it to be exactly how I'm imagining and I'm trying to tell myself it's okay if it's not perfect. I go back and forth between being stressed and then having no care about it at all.

I'm feeling impatient for the day to come, but I know I'll start freaking out as the date approaches! Wedding jitters are totally normal, sadly. Take a break from planning and treat yourself to a manicure or spa day - anything that helps you relax

View Quoted Comment Girl I know how you feel, I made special invites and so far I've had people ask me the details again because they already lost theirs (I just mailed them May 1st) or the people who demanded they get an invite. What's really pushing my buttons is the groomsmen are either not responding. Weddings to me are just something you do for your family's entertainment, no wonder we get honeymoons, it's a stress reliever.

View Quoted Comment Everything defintenly needs to be perfect, I can't stand the thought of setting this all up for everyone's enjoyment and have something make me look bad. God knows if something goes wrong it'll be the things I wanted most.

View Quoted Comment My breaks are spent playing dead when the dinosaurs (my son's) eat me. They are a big stress reliever for me but then again my little ring bearers like to create added stress to the wedding plans 😂😂😂

I'm excited. I have my moments of anxiety cause certain things make me anxious and im type A personality sometimes. But in general I'm excited

Same boat! I keep having periods of time where I'm stressing myself out because I care way too much, or I literally just don't even care. That, in itself, is stressfulXD But so far, everything has came together smoothly. I have already sent out invites, and they are trickling back in, so, its something to keep me engaged in "planning" and "wedding mode". My bridal shower is also in a month so that has me excited and somewhat of a milestone to look forward to within the wedding planning process. Keeping my brain busy is what I have found out helps me the best, weather it be with non-wedding related stuff, or just talking to my mom or anyone else that will listen about wedding stuff. Seems to take the anxious feeling off a bit!

Hate wedding planning 😣I thought it would be more fun. Most of the time I’m so excited for the day to come but I’m procrastinating on the planning part. For instance I couldn’t wait for my invites to come in but now every time I pick up the box to start them I find a reason to put them away again😩. Reserved the cake baker two months ago and still haven’t scheduled a tasting 😞. It’s overwhelming. I have 4 sisters that will be my BMs and I just sort of assumed that they would kinda take charge with the help with planning but it’s not so and I have to hint or ask them that I need someone to go with me to this or that. FH and I are long distance and I told him that since I want the wedding on my side of town I would handle the majority of the planning. 89 days left😱😱😱