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7 Bridesmaids????

Krista , on August 5, 2013 at 4:02 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 10

Is is ok to have 7 bridesmaids? All of the girls I want to ask have been a big part of my life. I am just unsure on how many bridesmaids is too many. I am also not having my wedding until May of 2015. When is a good time to ask the girls? I want to ask them now but I am just not sure if it is to soon.

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Latest activity by Allyson, on August 5, 2013 at 4:36 PM
  • Laura
    Master November 2013
    Laura ·
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    I don't think there is a limit to the number of bridesmaids you can have, as long as they are important people in your life, I say go for it.

    But please, wait to ask them until much closer to the wedding, like a year out at the earliest.

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  • Soonyee
    VIP June 2013
    Soonyee ·
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    Yes, that is totally fine. I think if you start going above 10 BMs its a bit much.

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  • Shannon A
    Master May 2014
    Shannon A ·
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    There is no rule as to how many. I had 8 girls in mind, but jest felt overwhelmed by the extra cost and coordination. I settled on 5. The other girls will get ready with me, but they won't be standing up with us

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  • Hilery
    VIP November 2014
    Hilery ·
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    You can have as many bridesmaids as you please! I've been to weddings with just a few ans wedding that had 10! There is no limit. The only issue I've seen with larger parties is mixed opinions on dresses etc. Everyone wants to give their opinion and it tends to stress out the bride but, if they're all laid back, you won't have issues.

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  • Megan K
    Expert July 2013
    Megan K ·
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    I had 7. I loved having them all around me on that day...the only pain is trying to coordinate them for events (bachelorette, shower etc.) so you should go into it knowing that one or more may miss out on something

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  • Trena
    Master July 2013
    Trena ·
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    I had 6. It was more than I had wanted, but they were all truly amazing. Smiley smile I got lucky!

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  • Just Reenski
    Master December 2012
    Just Reenski ·
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    Welcome to WW, Krista! You are welcome to have as many BMs as you'd like, but remember that when you have a lot of people, you do open yourself to issues -- coordinating, if any two girls have issues with each other, cost of gifts for them, etc.

    As far as asking them, I advise against asking anyone you're even the slightest bit hesitant about more than about 1 year out. If it's your BFF of forever that you know is a loyal, solid, there for you girl, ask whenever. But if you're thinking of asking an old friend you're not as close to, or a flaky/self-centered friend, wait. Really look at your relationship with them before asking them to be a BM.

    I hope you'll stick around and update that avatar (the rings) to ANY unique picture we can remember you by. This post tells you how: https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-forums/welcome-to-the-weddingwire-forums-please-read-if-you-are-new/b433c40c1a62b96a.html

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  • J
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    Jenn ·
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    I had 7 and luckily no drama Smiley smile

    If your wedding isn't until 2015 I'd wait a little to ask; you never know, things can change.

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  • STBMsMullings
    Super July 2015
    STBMsMullings ·
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    Your wedding so you have as many as you want mama!!!

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  • Allyson
    Master May 2014
    Allyson ·
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    I have 6, and they've all be great so far. I asked them to be in the wedding about this time last year for my May 2014 wedding, but I know some girls recommend waiting until closer to the wedding in case things change. I also think one of the best ways to avoid drama is to set your expectations for them early and make them aware of them. For example, what will their costs be, what do you expect them to help with, how much time will be involved for them?

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