65 days! Please lay the advice on me!!!

No advice lol, but I feel ya! I’m right there too. 50 something days left for us. Waiting on RSVPS too and our numbers are so up in the air I have no idea the number of tables, etc. I’ve collected enough items to do about 3/4 of the tables I’d like to have and will fill in the last few tables once I finalize numbers. I’m just planing on filling in once I have final numbers.


We're working on song lists, ceremony and order right now. Also, The decor that isn’t guest dependent (so ceremony decor, guest book, cake table stuff like that). I’m also starting on my bridal party and family gifts.

We're almost date twins and i know how you feel. Like right now, im in the middle of should i buy something or not. My wedding is really small. I don't want to buy something and later realized i never used it. If its all customized, you know i won't be able to return it lol. So I know what you're going through. Hopefully we get through all this without going crazy lol.

I am a list person. I would say look at different checklists. Also over the weekend i had a friend rapid fire questions to see what was done and not and thankfully that really helped and put my mind at ease, for now. We are 34 days away!!
If you want me to ask you more questions of what you have or dont, message me.

View Quoted Comment Right !! That’s pretty much where I’m at. Oh!! Bridal party gifts- that’s a good idea lol

View Quoted Comment Thank you so much!!

View Quoted Comment Exactly lol i don’t want to try to get ahead of ourselves and end up wasting stuff so it’s a waiting game.. and people take forever to rsvp 🥴

I'm right there with you! I am an incredibly organized person, and throughout this whole process I have felt like I am on top of everything. However we are now 39 days out, and I have this feeling like there is so much I am missing. I am telling myself not so sweat the small stuff, and everything else will come together but it is definitely easier said that done. Luckily, my fiance is very level headed and has been by my side throughout this whole process. Between his help, my friends and familie's help, and many many checklists I know I will make it to the finish line!

We're 45 days out and I'm with you girl. I always worry that I'm missing something... but just stay organized, go over your lists of outstanding tasks, and stay calm. Have a glass of wine and give yourself an hour from each day if possible to go over/take care of wedding related tasks. Lean on your fiance for support and breathe. Everything will be alright. April 4th bride to be here!!