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Sarah
Super August 2021

6 days freaking out!!!

Sarah, on July 30, 2021 at 1:55 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 2
I'm really starting to freak out now that my wedding is 6 days away. Not about marrying my fh, but about certain aspects of the day. First is our thank you speech, well I should say my thank you speech. My fh has terrible stage fright so he refuses to speak leaving it up to me, which I thought was ok but all of a sudden this morning I'm wicked nervous about it. I'm also feeling nerves about our first dance. We are not big on dancing so it will be simple swaying and I dont know specifically what scares me about it but yea. Then theres my walk down the aisle. I've never met my father so my brother was going to walk me down the aisle but he backed out for some stupidd reason, and I'm a terrible clutz and have decided to walk alone so I'm afraid I'm going to trip. I know all this worrying is pointless and useless the day will probably not be perfect but still pretty amazing but I'm freaking out nonetheless and needed to just get it out lol.



Anyone else freaking out about their wedding?

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Latest activity by Betty, on August 1, 2021 at 6:01 PM
  • Katie
    VIP August 2020
    Katie ·
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    Hi Sarah! Keep practicing to build your confidence ❤️ Practice with your wedding shoes on walking down the aisle, practice swaying with your fiancé for the first dance and practice out loud your thank you speech. You got this girl 👍 all the best for your upcoming wedding ❤️❤️❤️
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  • Betty
    Dedicated July 2021
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    Take a deep breath & like Katie said practice, practice, practice makes perfect! YOU got this! You CAN do anything you set your mind to do!

    However, IF you can't, don't want to OR your stress isn't alleviating ~ You can "decide" to not do a speech (it's not like it's required ~ the only speeches at our wedding 2 weeks ago was the Best Man & Matron of Honor) ~ our "first dance" was basically us getting up to "our song" & doing the "middle/high school" sway around the dance floor ~ I have little rhythm & he only dances with enough alcohol! As to your walking down the isle ~ what about your Mom? Or another responsible adult relative who is important to you?? I personally walked alone (my parents are both gone & this wasn't my first wedding) ~ I have 3 adult married daughters ~ their father wasn't in the picture when they got married ~ one was walked by her Only Uncle, one by her brothers and the last one who just got married was escorted by her oldest sisters husband ~ I would have gladly walked them had they asked me!

    Everything will work out perfectly no matter what you decide!

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