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Lizbeth
Devoted July 2019

6 days away and

Lizbeth, on June 27, 2019 at 10:07 AM Posted in Planning 0 7
I don't feel excited.
The excitement has been gone for a while now.
For the past month FH and I have been arguing a lot.
I get easily frustrated.
I'm upset that I have zero ounce of excitement.
I havent even written my vows




Has anyone gone through this.

7 Comments

Latest activity by Pirate & 60s Bride, on June 27, 2019 at 11:29 AM
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    Just Said Yes July 2019
    Karlie ·
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    I think with all the stress leading up to the day it is easy to lose sight of why you are getting married in the first place. I would try to take some time for the two of you to destress before the wedding and just enjoy being with your FH. I think that will help spark some excitement!

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    It makes sense due to the stress. Take a day of not doing anything wedding related and just have a date with your man
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  • Michelle
    Super August 2019
    Michelle ·
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    I'm not excited either but it has nothing to do with my FH. There's just been so much drama and crap surrounding it all that I don't want it anymore. Don't get me wrong, I can't wait to actually marry my FH, I just no longer want all the hoopla. It's too stressful and I feel like I'm going insane!
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  • Lizbeth
    Devoted July 2019
    Lizbeth ·
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    I agree too many opinions from everyone its driving me crazy
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  • Lizbeth
    Devoted July 2019
    Lizbeth ·
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    Yes so many last minute things that need to get done and we're just pointing our fingers at each other.
    I'm trying to get him to take few days off before the wedding and he won't
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  • Lizbeth
    Devoted July 2019
    Lizbeth ·
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    So much stress. He wont take any days off before the wedding, he is off saturday so many we can try spending some time then.,
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    Oh gosh, I wish he would!

    The last 30 days, then last week, are the toughest. My hubby (started getting sick two days before we had to leave for our DW) & I had a major blow-out then and worked through it but the stress was unbelievable. To make it easier on you—ditch any details (favors, little centerpiece decor), nobody will notice anyway. Did FH write his vows? Maybe at this point just use the standard vows. Maybe consider getting a massage even if you shouldn’t spend the money—one of my regrets because I so needed one to get through that last week.

    Know if you can let go of expectations the day of, your wedding day will totally be worth it. And you’ll experience several unexpected magical moments.
    🤗
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