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Katelyn
Expert September 2016

5 days until my shower and nothing is marked bought on our registries

Katelyn, on August 8, 2016 at 3:51 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 28

Has anyone else experienced this? I am registered at Walmart and Target and I have checked back in now and then and still nothing had been purchased off of either registry. I know some people may have bought in store and not marked it off. I'm hoping that's the case and not that everyone forgot about my shower. I think it's the pre shower/wedding jitters setting in, but I'd just love to hear if this has happened to anyone else.

28 Comments

Latest activity by Spidel8, on August 8, 2016 at 6:30 PM
  • RealLindseyO
    Master October 2017
    RealLindseyO ·
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    A lot of people are last minute shoppers. I wouldn't worry about it!

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  • R&B2016
    VIP October 2016
    R&B2016 ·
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    I wouldn't worry about it. Many people will probably buy the day before or day of. It really just depends on your guests! For example, my shower is in September and I have 11 items already purchased. It depends on who's invited!

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  • Katelyn
    Expert September 2016
    Katelyn ·
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    My shower is a brunch on Saturday morning, so I guess I was a bit surprised when I checked after this weekend and saw still nothing. I mean I grateful for everyone to come and celebrate with me, but it is kind of the point of a shower lol. I just hope it ends up being a fun morning for everyone.

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  • kiandra
    Master October 2016
    kiandra ·
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    If they are anything like me they may not pick up anything until they are in route to the shower. *hangs head* biggest last minute shopper of all time

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  • AnewH
    Super September 2016
    AnewH ·
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    I was worried about the same thing. Don't worry it will all work out. Most people bought theirs a day or 2 before the shower.

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  • Helena Handbasket
    Master February 2016
    Helena Handbasket ·
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    I'm really bad for getting something on the way to shower. Usually end up writing in the card in the parking lot

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  • SummerS
    Master January 2016
    SummerS ·
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    I'm sure it's just last-minute shoppers! Maybe they are waiting for pay-day on Friday? Or some could be just gifting you a gift card or cash, which is a little out of the ordinary for a shower, but not unheard of. Just stop looking! Then at least you'll be somewhat surprised at your shower over what you did get rather than knowing beforehand exactly which items to expect that day.

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  • Mrs. Sasswood
    Master October 2016
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    I think I had people get gifts from a different store after seeing what was on our registry because we received a lot more gifts than were shown as "purchased". We did get gift receipts from some stores we didn't register for as well as a lot of personalized items. Don't fret! It's not about the gifts anyway, right?

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  • Katelyn
    Expert September 2016
    Katelyn ·
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    Yeah. I guess I'm a planner, but a lot of people are more on the go type. I think it's a good idea to stop looking and just be surprised with whatever happens. Thanks for easing the fear of everyone coming with no gifts everyone.

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  • NowASeptMrs
    Master September 2015
    NowASeptMrs ·
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    A lot of people are last minute shoppers or maybe you are getting giftcards. I also got a lot of non-registry things for my shower: Like a sign with our wedding data, a rug saying "Welcome to the Smith's" and embroidered towels from my grandma. Some of the best gifts are non registry things.

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  • Katelyn
    Expert September 2016
    Katelyn ·
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    Wow. Those gifts sound really great NowASeptMrs!

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  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
    Going to the chapel ·
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    Don't look at the registry for the next 5 days! Smiley smile

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  • Katelyn
    Expert September 2016
    Katelyn ·
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    Okay. I promise everyone! I won't look anymore and I will definitely give an update on what happens. Whether it's 6 toasters, a bunch of amazing non registry items, a miracle of no duplicates, or some crazy off the wall things =P.

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  • Almost-Mrs.Saraza
    Expert August 2016
    Almost-Mrs.Saraza ·
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    I had three things marked off as bought on my shower registry. People still came with gifts some of which were on my registry but never marked off. Don't stress it! I'm sure no one forgot!

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  • SummerS
    Master January 2016
    SummerS ·
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    Also, not everyone remembers to have the sales associate scan the registry paper unfortunately.

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  • MissWtoMrsH
    VIP July 2017
    MissWtoMrsH ·
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    Check back Saturday an hour before the shower. I'm on to buy a gift the day of the event. And btw..stop checking it lol

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  • Katelyn
    Expert September 2016
    Katelyn ·
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    That's something I didn't even think about teach7. I know most people give money at the wedding, but I guess I should make sure I do mark everything off that I do end up getting.

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  • BlueHenBride
    Master March 2017
    BlueHenBride ·
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    I almost always buy shower gifts the day before the shower. A lot of people do it this way, so just relax and know that your shower will be wonderful!

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  • Katelyn
    Expert September 2016
    Katelyn ·
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    Thanks everyone Smiley smile

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  • Nessa
    VIP December 2017
    Nessa ·
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    I'm sure most people either bought in store (if you have an older crowd) or just plan on giving you check/gift card.

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