2Nd Thank You Card for Attending

I don't think they need another thank you card for their attendance

The reception is the thank you for attending the ceremony, so if you already wrote a card thanking them for the gift, I think you’re good! I wouldn’t expect two thank you cards.

Aw date twin! I wouldn't write another. I've had 2 people that came to my wedding and didn't bring a gift (we don't really do physical gifts where I'm from). One said she is sending a personalized gift, I'll wait to write a thank you once I receive it. The other is a corny friend of my mom who made no mention of anything and didn't bring a card. I'm not sending her a thank you. I thanked her with a meal, drinks and entertainment. I hope you had an amazing day!

Hi there Ana!

You already thanked them for their wedding gift, so you’re totally covered. If you wanted to send them another thank you note for coming to the wedding and again for the gift you can totally do this, however, It’s not necessary

Do you have many thank you notes to write?

We sent thank you notes to people who attended, but did not bring gifts, because nearly everyone on our guest list had to travel pretty far to come to our wedding. However, it's definitely not necessary.

No, you dont' send thank you's to people for attending. You should have spoken to and thanked everyone in person the day of, and the reception is already the thank you for attending the ceremony. You're fine!

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Thanks! About 90 including our vendors! Not terrible, considering the normal size of NJ weddings

Thank you all so much!! I figured as much, but I just wanted to get some outside opinions. Best wishes for those that have yet to get married, and congratulations to my newly married brides!! xoxo

If you want to, I think it would be nice to send a "thank you for attending and thanks again for the "gift") I think it would be a nice touch but its not necessary.