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25 Days and i feel like freaking the freak out....

maryann, on June 3, 2019 at 8:43 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 5

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Uuuuuggghhhhhh….. you know what this wedding planning has not be has hard as I thought it was going to be half way through. Even though I planned it mainly by myself it probably was for the best, for the most part I stayed ahead of my schedule waaaaayyyyyy ahead so that I wouldn't have this problem right now. Freaking the freak out. I have my list I have been checking everything two - three times, but I just feel like I am not going to make it. I know I know relax Maryann and breathe that is what the wedding planner keeps telling me. I have a house full of decorations, and bags of things and I am just like oh my Lord. Oh so the bad thing that is probably got me going crazy my FH and his brother had a fallen out last week and he has decided to remove himself from the wedding. FH doesn't care... he has the mindset I don't care if no one comes as long as me and you are there that is all that matters to me in the end. aaawwww so sweet I know, but I have been planning this wedding for a year and his brother was always apart of the wedding. I just wish they could get it together, but I know these two very well. This is going to turn out very ugly before it possible gets any better so now we are short a guy in the wedding party. I know uneven wedding parties are fine I just wish that all this confusion wasn't going this close to my wedding. Thank you for all listening have a GREAT DAY... 25 Days and counting

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Becky · on June 3, 2019 at 9:17 AM
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In 25 days you are going to have a beautiful day, at the end of which you will be married, and the little things won't have mattered at all. It sucks that your FH's brother has removed himself, but that's on him, and there's nothing you can do about it, unfortunately. Hopefully, between now and the wedding your FH and his brother will get their crap together - and if they do, then he can still be in the wedding, and it will be beautiful - and if they don't, then he won't be in the wedding, and it will be beautiful.
I know how hard it is to not stress at this (or any) point in the planning process - try to remember that you will be ready and that at the end of the day, all that needs to happen is that you marry your FH. In the meantime - take a night off. Go on a date with FH. Get a massage. Have a glass of wine and binge watch your favorite show. Do whatever will help you to relax.
You got this.
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maryann · on June 3, 2019 at 9:18 AM
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Thank you, I really appreciate that. It crazy cause I believe we be knowing this stuff we just need to hear someone else tell us.....
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Cher Horowitz · on June 3, 2019 at 1:17 PM
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I bet it's hard to not freak out, so I won't tell you to not freak out Keep moving forward and the big day will be here before you know it. Congratulations!
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Melle · on June 3, 2019 at 2:26 PM
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Wedding planning is stressful indeed and I hope you can take breaks to compose yourself and breathe for the sake of your sanity.
Have faith that things will fall into place and it'll be beautiful due to your diligence and work.
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maryann · on June 3, 2019 at 2:54 PM
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Thank you ladies... I have been breathing all day and trying to relax so close, yet so far away if I am going to do this everyday. I don't know it just seem like when we hit that 30 day mark time literally flew and it is like what the world this is going down in 3 weeks... hahahaha I am be ok
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