24 days and starting to freak out

Don't worry, Teresa, a lot of brides get approaching nerves. It's normal, like how some people got really nervous before taking the SAT in high school or going into a job interview.

Take a couple deep breaths and remember: at the end of this, you're going to be married to your person. Over the next couple of days, you're might go through the 6 Feels You'll Have 10 Days Before the Wedding and you just need to take care of yourself. Like you said, all that's left is small details.

You're less than a month away and you are so on top of things! You got this, Teresa!!

16 days and YES! Totally. Anxiety dreams, hard time staying focused at work. Just had a family drop out from the wedding this morning. Still trying to figure out what to do with my name! But because we have everything done, I’m really trying to stay focused on the fact that we won’t get this time again, everything is going to be great and we’re just riding the highs of our excitement now! Trying to turn my anxiety into excitement I mean. Keep doing nice things for yourself, read sleep eat well relax and ENJOY!

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Yes, LadyH, roll with the punches and enjoy this time!! You go girl, you got this!!

I'm feeling pretty numb about things right now. I'm 10 days away. I had my hair and make up trial yesterday and I walked out of that salon GLOWING and so happy!! I felt so glamorous and got to feel a bit of how I will feel on my wedding day. It was amazing and for that part I am so excited!!! But I am more nervous I believe than anything else, just simply because I do not have a DOC and I feel like all of the coordinating pressure is on me. Even if I delegate things out, I will probably still stress that they aren't done perfect if I don't do them myself. I would like to feel excitement!! But it just hasn't happened yet. I'm kinda still in the "I can't believe it's next weekend" mode, and nothing has hit me yet. Still feels like it's month and months away.

Just try to relax! I know it's much easier said than done! Just do every possible thing that you can now, to make sure you have the least amount possible to do on your wedding day or even the day before. Try to make sure you have time to just relax and do nothing on your wedding day for at least a little bit. And just enjoy this last month!! It will fly by and then we will be left with no planning to do and lots of extra money haha!

View Quoted Comment Yes you are so right!!!

View Quoted Comment Yes I would be the same way. Even if I ask others to help me out, I stress about the jobs given out!
but I’m going to try and relax and make sure I have time to rest the morning of before everything starts. I’m feeling super nervous, much more nervous than excited! I’m hoping on the day of the nervousness will go away and excitement will set in.
good luck to you on your big day!