I'm going to try not to go off on our officiant but I called the county today and they have not even received our marriage license so it has not even gone into processing!!! If she still has it I want it back from her and will turn it in myself! My work only gives us a 31 day time frame to add a spouse to benefits which only gives me 10 days past the open enrollment period we are in right now. DH has like 60 days for his but still! And his work is cracking down so his work REQUIRES the marriage certificate to add me. I'll try to find out about mine cause we just want dental under mine and everything else under his. Dental is so cheap so we want to have that under both of us for double coverage.
What makes me so mad is I tipped her because I did not want to be rude for not tipping but when we met with her and she gave us all this paperwork on how to do a rehearsal, ceremony ideas, etc there was an envelope labeled "officiant gratuity" in there! cont...
