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JLD
Beginner April 2018

2 Maids of Honor

JLD, on April 20, 2017 at 1:43 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 25

I am considering making my 2 best friends both maids of honor. Equally close with both of them and could see them working well together. Both are not married, so unfortunately can't do 1 maid and 1 matron of honor. There will be 5-6 additional bridesmaid in addition to these 2. Has anyone done this...

I am considering making my 2 best friends both maids of honor. Equally close with both of them and could see them working well together. Both are not married, so unfortunately can't do 1 maid and 1 matron of honor. There will be 5-6 additional bridesmaid in addition to these 2.

Has anyone done this before? Pros and cons of doing so?

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  • Ashley
    Devoted June 2017
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    I'm having two maid of honors. It's your wedding you make it how you want it.

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  • Sabrina
    Super August 2017
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    I don't see anything wrong with it

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  • Beginner April 2019
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    I'm so glad I came across this forum.
    I can't pick between my sister and best friend.
    How did having two of them turn out for you?

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  • JLD
    Beginner April 2018
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    It worked out great! They got along so well and even said to me after that it made it easier and was less pressure with having someone to plan with. I had them in floral dresses and the rest of the bridesmaids in solid colors, so they stood out and people could tell I had two. I would recommend doing it if you’re thinking about it!
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  • Autumn
    Just Said Yes December 2019
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    May I ask how you asked them? Did you ask them both personally or did you do a gift to ask them? I gave my best friends a heads up I was thinking of her and my other best friend splitting duties but I think I hurt her feelings. I want to ask them in a gift way officially but I didn’t know how you brought it up. I was thinking of a letter in the gift box telling them how much they mean to me and that I would be honored if they both would join me?
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