So My wedding is a little over a week out and my grandmother is making things VERY difficult. Firstly my uncle is in the hospital, he had a stroke over the weekend. Anyway, while she was visiting she decided that some people who we had decided to cut from the list (It was a really hard decision but we just didn't have the room and they're very distant relatives, so they got cut) where really important for the day of. So, she invited them, just straight up "Oh, you're coming to Denise's wedding, right? Yeah here's the details!" and then called me AFTER to TELL me she did. Not ask me, tell me they were definitely coming!
Also, we told her that since we don't have a large budget, we'll be setting it up mostly ourselves. So she proceeds to pop my bubble with "Well, what are people going to say when they find our that's where we are? They'll all be down there to chat and visit like family does" Yes, imagine attitude with that. Anyway I told my mom that I'm going to be very upset if she tells people where we are.
To clarify, My wedding ceremony is small and is on the 13th and we are having a large reception on the 14th to celebrate. We haven't been lying or trying to bend the truth, we are telling everyone that's the plan so everyone will know.
What do I do? I can't UN-invite these people!
