Discussions I've participated in

When I first became engaged I offered each of my parents (who are divorced) a plus one if they wanted it. Both individually and then as a unit informed me that they did not need/want a plus one. I...

I'm deciding between two hotels near our venue. They both have different price points and different options, but the more expensive hotel also requests that guest pay additional for parking each night...

Ok my aunt and I are not close we live in the same yard but that's just it. Secondly she doesn't like my husband to be but my mom is insisting that I invite her because she's my aunt and we are living...

We're signing the contract with our photographer later this week and I'm not sure how to ask if we have to pay for hotel stay, and a meal. We originally have them counted in the guest list for...

Ok so I'm having wed/rec no kids..except for mine 10 & 22, traveling braidsmaid kid, 11, & my niece & nephew who are in wed. I have friends and family who have kids that are 18 & over...

My sister is married and she has a daughter, my niece of course. I'm thinking of asking them to be Matron of Honor (sister) and Maid of Honor (niece). Has anyone heard of this? Or done it? I have no...

My parents got really mad at me for removing a MOH from my bridal party. Here my reasons listed below. I feel guilty, but I feel angry too. My dad said I need to fix it, or my mom will ruin my...

A family member is graciously hosting a couples shower for my FH and I. I would like to request that they don't serve hard alcohol, as my fiance has struggled with alcohol issues in the past, as has...

Funny how I’ve been to so many weddings and now I’m planning my own I don’t even know what’s what! My FH and I will have a modern Christian influenced ceremony. Mostly I am wondering when we exchange...

I accidentally just commented on a thread from 2011 on this subject. 😬 People seem to go all out for BM/MOH gifts. Now I'm wondering if what I’m planning isn’t all that great. Im paying for their...

I have 4 kids (8y, 4y, 3y and 6m) and I'm not sure where they should sit. I know usually the sweetheart table is for only the bride and groom, but with them being so young, should they sit with us? Or...

I have a few family members that gave gotten gf/bfs that didn’t have plus ones ... one example is an uncle who my aunt died 6 months ago from cancer : he’s started dating and mentioned her coming to...

We are having a large wedding - 400 invited- for our venue it's going to save us $2000 to go with a plated meal that is all well and good but because our groups are a) intermingled b) my...

First, a little about the wedding. Fiancé and I are having a private destination wedding then celebrating at a post wedding reception. So no "real" bridal party just a dear friend who wants to help....

FH and I decided the only kids we wanted at the weddin were the ones in the wedding, and his siblings, who are 4 and 5. Now I fee guilty. All of the kids involved, except his siblings, are children of...

So one of my bridesmaids just told me she is pregnant. She is suppose to be traveling via road trip 10 hours to get here for the wedding. The kicker is she is literally due 6 days after my wedding....

Father passed away when I was little and not only is planning a struggle but I keep getting asked who will walk me down the aisle and I don't know..anyone else struggling with this?

So many people don't get along with their in-laws. And I seriously just can't even imagine that--because my in-laws are some amazing people whom I love very much. Anyone else have amazing in-laws? ...