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When my fiance proposed we had no idea that the year after would be how it would be. Three months after the proposal we found out we were expecting a... View More

When my fiance proposed we had no idea that the year after would be how it would be. Three months after the proposal we found out we were expecting a little one. We were thrilled. Then even more so when we found out we were having a little boy since we already have, at the time, a 1 year old daughter. But soon into my second trimester we started having complications. I physically wouldn't be able to walk by the end of my work days which caused me to quit and be a stay at home mom. Then I went into early labor....three times. We finally had to be induced at 36 weeks and had a very healthy little man. We were happy and a perfect family. A year and a couple weeks after he proposed we found out something that no one should ever hear. I was diagnosed with breast cancer. Its now four months after that and its been an extremely rough road. Now we have fears of being able to even have our wedding. We've already pushed it back due to timelines for surgeries. And not sure how we can afford it since were paying for it ourselves. But we are determined to have the wedding both of us deserves.