Discussions I've participated in

So I'm really trying to have a full wedding for under $10k. Ideally way under. Has anyone had a wedding without a DJ? How did it go? Other ideas for saving? Looking at a brunch or lunch option...

My FH and I are in total agreement about skipping the wedding cake and having a big variety of desserts instead. Frankly, I've never tasted a wedding cake I've liked. My MOH can't wrap her head around...

I would like ideas on who to take wedding dress shopping I was thinking my sister, sister in law, my mom (who I do not get along with), his mom , my aunt?? Is that to many opinions?