Discussions I've participated in

FH and I are planning a honeymoon in Toronto during the week of New Years. I've been looking on airbnb, because I think it would be sweet to stay in a fancy penthouse or high rise for at least part of...

How many of you are getting a prenup? What do you guys think about prenups? A smart decision or a complete distrust and romance killer?

How many hours do you have your videographers? What time will they arrive?

I am curious in your opinion, what is an appropriate time to wait (after starting a new job) to have babies? Personally I want to establish myself as a valued employee before cranking out babies. I...

So, I am in the process of compiling a list of the alcohol that I need to buy for my venue. Now, I need you to assume that you are attending my wedding, around 85F in Michigan on a Saturday. Ceremony...

So, out of curiosity if someone had a pot luck reception would you find it rude? what if you weren't asked to bring anything? what if people just volunteered and you knew that you would have plenty to...

Fh and I were both raised Catholic. Even going to Catholic cschool from K through 12. Neither of us are religious as adults. He is more ok with it, but I very much dislike the idea of organized...

So we're having a sit-down dinner, and I'm feeling like I'm cheap because I don't want to give my guest a choice of chicken or something else. My coordinator suggested we just serve chicken to avoid...

My FH has two female friends that he knows for years. Sometimes they send messages to one another. And I'm wondering if it's acceptable to him to continue talking to them when he's married to me. I'm...

Hey ladies I am wondering, I have 7 bridesmaids and 7 groomsmen. Some of them have husband and significant other and I was wondering if I should put bridesmaids and groomsmen together or should I just...

Ok, Ladies, I need some help. My MatronOH backed out of the wedding over the cost of the BM dress I picked out (see my thread MOH backed out.. what do i do?). Now my MOH is sweating the cost. I am...

Has anyone honeymooned in Montreal? Or anywhere in Canada? I have only been to whistler and that was gorgeous, do you recommend a place for honeymooning? My fiancé is not comfortable with an Europe...

FMIL showed us a picture on her phone of a dress she liked - a white, long dress! I thought she was kidding & was about to giggle but she was serious. I kept my mouth shut & smiled but was a little...

It could happen. After a long day and being so stressed and party all night, you just want to go to sleep. I'm scared of something like that happening. I want us to be alone on our wedding nights and...

And for good reason. So I bought my bridesmaids there dresses about a year ago. I knew what kind I wanted and one day was online and found the ones I wanted for $20! I couldn't let that pass so...

Okay, it seems almost all of us brides are having some kind of dilemma with the MOH. I had a few problems.. But had to concentrate on my FH. We had to go on weekend trip and get away. It was great. So...

Hi all So I'm debating on having a ring bearer or not. The ring bearer would be my 3 1/2 yr old. I don't even know if he'd walk down the aisle! My FH wants him to though. I'm at a loss! My kid is...

With all the drama I see regarding mother-in-laws I thought I'd share a happy post about how amazing both my mother-in-laws are! FH's parents are divorced and remarried and I consider both his mom and...

First they thought UTI, now with the help of an ultrasound they confirmed I have a kidney stone (I had suspected this all along). It's a lot bigger than the one I had when I was 16 and I'm so scared...