Activity for Caitlin

Hey guys, I have a friend that I'm sure thinks she is going to be in the party but I'm just not sure I want her to yet. We've had a back and forth friendship and I just don't feel close to her anymore. How would I break it to her kindly I've decided...

Hi all! We have planned to have our wedding in April 2021. When is it to early to ask my maid of honor/bridesmaids? Also, they all live in different cities is it okay to ask at different times?