Activity for Kate

My song A Thousand Years is 4 minutes and 36 seconds long. It actually times perfectly from my walk down the stairs out of the winery on the brick pathway that leads up to the brick high raised terrace where the actually ceremony will take place. So...

If we are paying for the small wedding ourselves and decided not to have a wedding party, no Bestman or MOH, who makes a toast? Do we just stand up during dinner and thank our guests for being there for our special day? Forgo the toast? I am not sure...