Activity for Wanderberg

Some back factors: my wedding will be in September of 2019. I planned on not really looking for a dress until this coming late summer 2018 (i heard 12 months ahead of time is the earliest you should look) I have almost NO IDEA what i do and don't...

Do you think its appropriate to have a wedding 2 hours from where most of the guests live? will everybody hate me? is it rude?? I live in more of an Urban city and we are definitely more rural people, so we want to be further north where there's more...