Activity for Alexis

I guess this is a multi-question discussion, but... 1) Who is doing ceremony programs? I feel like we should because we have a big wedding party and a lot of guests don't know one another and it would be a nice guide, but possibly a unnecessary...

What accessories are you girls planning to wear? Necklaces, earrings, bracelets etc? Veil, no veil? Sash: beaded, plain or none at all? I'm on the fence about some accessories and just trying to get some ideas!

Ok, so my dress is a fit and flare so it's a little more form fitting around the hips and butt. And I have no idea what underwear to wear that won't show through the dress. I don't really like thongs and I'm wondering if anyone has a seamless option...