Activity for Tiffany

hello So I really don't want to spend tons on flowers. we are splurging on lots of stuff compared to little guests(about 60. ) and flower really is the last thing I want to spend money on. our ceremony arch is very sad looking I would love to add...

Tell me some of your wedding expenses like how much did you spend? Did anyone know any venues that had everything included in a package?

I am a shoe lover and really don't matter to me if is cheap or expensive as long is beautiful. I am so excited about my shoes , my mother pick my wedding shoes and I so in love with. Did anyone had or having a hard time picking your shoes?

So I actually have not yet proposed but am looking at rings and I really don't want to invest in a diamond ring. To me that's more money to put towards our future, but do I look cheap if I get a white sapphire??? Maybe another colored stone?