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October 6, 2018
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2010 days agoHey all! So we found out we were expecting a week before our wedding (first words out of my mouth was, "But, but open bar!"). My bridal shower was this past August and the wedding was this past October. MIL is insisting that someone will throw me a...
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2067 days agoFINALLY! I could NOT WAIT for 10/6 to come because I was done with all the planning. Haha! After a year and a half of planning and trying to keep under budget, our day finally came and went and our photographer sent us his first set of pictures as...
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2085 days agoSo wedding is this Saturday and I’ve been off contraceptives for about a month. I took a pregnancy test this morning and: 1. Never saw ANY lines but when I put pressure on the pee stick part (to see if it was wet, gross, I know) I felt a click and...
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2096 days agoWe are having a photographer and videographer and, because of our GORGEOUS location of our reception, I made sure to get a videographer with a drone license (no extra charge to use their drone). But the venue for the reception said that now we can...
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2103 days agoSo I’ve done my follow up to those that haven’t RSVP’d and have two situations: 1. I have family that say they’re not sure if they can make it but if they do, they’ll be late. I know they sincerely want to be there and their work schedules are strict...
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2117 days agoSo I get that the "seat" is already reserved and paid for but let me know if I have any other options than to just deal with it. So I got really close to someone who started CrossFit the same time as me about 6 years ago. We got really close, were...
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2118 days agoSo I've had issues with my planner before to where she was not responding and I've had to follow up multiple times with her. I called her on it and told her that I have no problem losing the deposit and finding someone else. She graciously apologized...
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2119 days agoI mean, it was only $1500 from each guest! *puke* https://www.boredpanda.com/wedding-disaster-bride-asks-guests-1000-donation/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic
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2132 days agoI've seen so many other BAS posts on here and wanted to share mine as wellI because it was the BEST WEEKEND ever. That's saying alot since FH had to leave Saturday night for a work trip! Haha! So I just had my bridal shower this past Saturday and not...
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2139 days agoSo I've been trolling on here for how to tell people they're not invited but the answers don't really help in my situation. We are inviting 250 people and expecting 200. This is unavoidable in my family and culture, trust me. Because of that, we...
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2143 days agoHey all! So I already tried asking if my HMUA can do my trial on the morning of my bridal shower but she has another wedding that day. I figure I can have my nail trial done for that, at least. But do you think if I were to still get my hair and...
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2152 days agoSo rsvp's for my bridal shower were due last Friday and invitations went out three weeks before that. My shower is August 11. I honestly didn't know how it would go and was wondering why my bridesmaid wasn't giving me any numbers when I asked if she...
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2153 days agoSo our reception is located outdoors right next to a gorgeous landmark fishpond. FH and I will be heading straight from our picture taking (during cocktail hour) and right into the grand entrance. Just the two of us are entering on a boat that will...
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2161 days agoSo we're getting married in a church and not having an unplugged wedding. I am aware of how pictures could turn out with people trying to get their own pictures. To try to minimize that, I'm having tulle run along the center aisle to prevent anyone...
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2185 days agoOkay so FH and I decided that any kind of block lettering on top of our sweetheart table will probably be knocked down by one of us. So I'm deciding between making a "Mr. and Mrs." Banner to go in front of our table (with my Cricut) or to get the...
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2186 days agoLet me start off by saying my mom and I aren't close. There's no bad blood or anything, my parents are just traditional Asian and raised us more to respect each other than to be affectionate (it's awkward to tell each other "I love you"). We don't...